My first calf was Key-Lock

As a little girl, my dad Rick Escobar invited my sisters and me to name his cows. Inexplicably, I named my calf, Key-Lock. Karie named her calf, Dog-Dog, because she thought all animals were dogs at age 2, and Kim, the eldest of us three, called hers Lightning. Her name, clearly, was the best of the three. My great uncle, our beloved Uncle Ed, and Dad hauled us down to the pastures to ride our horse or pick pecans while they put out hay, checked water troughs, or moved cows. These were golden days.

Now, my sisters and I have children of our own—some nearly grown, one still in grammar school—who eagerly listen to stories of epic Gin Rummy matches with Uncle Ed and their grandfather’s memories of “liberating” watermelons from a neighbor’s garden, spending summers in Mississippi, and riding broncos in college. They ramble around Dada Rick and Nanaw’s farm, hunt for fossils in the creek, fish in the lake, and star gaze. Each spring, when calves start to be born, Dada Rick loads them in the Polaris and drives them out to see the mothers and their babies. They choose favorites and say hello to Little Bits, the cow Nanaw bottle-fed and raised.  

No matter the day, my sweet dad will wear pretty much the same thing: a snap-button, long-sleeved denim work shirt and blue jeans. He is out with the cattle daily, and the sun fades the clothes he wears as readily as it tans his face and hands. There is always fence to be mended, irrigation to adjust, or cows to be moved. Dad cultivates his pastures carefully and tends his herd with diligence and skill.

Lately, the young bulls have been lipping the chains on gates and granting themselves walk-abouts.  And yes, lipping the chains is exactly what it sounds like: they lick and work the chains with their mouths until they can push through the gates. Longer lengths of chain solved that problem, but Dad arrived late to his youngest grandson’s outdoor (socially distanced) birthday party because one of the new bulls proved reluctant to return to his own pasture. Such is the life.  

One that my father relishes and never takes for granted. He honors the cycle of life inherent in cattle production. He works tirelessly to help struggling cows give birth, watches over calves to be sure they are nursing well, and checks on each cow in his herd daily. And every day, my stepmother Becky (Nanaw to my children) accompanies him when she is not baking bread or working in her garden. We jokingly call her Dada Rick’s ranch hand, but together they are a formidable team of expertise, dedication, experience, and gusto.

Fundamentally, they desire to be good stewards of their land and what it produces. If you visit the ranch, you will see coils of fence wire, machine implements, tractors, and a row of chest freezers in the big barn. They salvage anything usable and are still storing things in coffee cans that I swear my dad used when I was a girl. To that end, Nanaw has been trying to work out how she can make coasters and trivets out of the tops of cedar posts that she gathered from a pasture that was recently fenced. In appreciation of both form and function, Nanaw seeks to create beautiful things that are also useful.

Because I know this about her (an abiding commitment to the good, beautiful, and true), it was no surprise to me when she gave my boys a gift that they really like but I value beyond measure. When one of my father’s denim work shirts wore out, Becky carefully cut out the two front pockets and gave them to my sons. They store “precious treasures” in their pockets: Everett stows his best marbles in his Dada Rick pouch; Elliott collects rocks (oh so many rocks) but keeps the best ones in his Dada Rick pocket. The white snap-buttons store their collections safely, and even overstuffed, the pockets fit readily into a jacket or backpack.

The gift was thoughtful. It was also thrifty and repurposed a worn-out thing into something new. But in the same way that the monarch’s crown signifies the king himself, these well-worn pockets speak my father to me. They remind me of his resourcefulness and hard work. They speak of his steadfastness in his life’s purpose out on the ranch. They counsel me to find contentment in what or who surrounds me and forego chasing after things. The pockets, remnants of a shirt my dad wore hundreds of times, are unpretentious and straightforward. Which is also entirely true of my father. And he, with my stepmom, is River Valley Grassfed Beef.

Welcome to River Valley Ranch. We hope to get to know you.
Kirsten, the middle daughter